Community Standards

Every decision we make about what is and is not acceptable on this platform flows from these commitments:

• Honesty over performance. We built this for people who are done pretending. Authenticity is the expectation, not the exception.
• Respect without exception. A person's past does not entitle anyone to treat them as less than human. Dignity is non-negotiable here.
• Safety as infrastructure. Safety tools are not an afterthought — they are load-bearing elements of the platform.
• Community over spectacle. This is not a platform for spectacle or curiosity. It is a platform for connection between real people.

The following behaviors will result in immediate account suspension or permanent ban:

• Harassment, threats, intimidation, or sustained unwanted contact after a member has asked you to stop.
• Hate speech targeting race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, or national origin.
• Solicitation of money, gifts, or financial favors from other members.
• Sharing another member's private information without their consent (doxxing).
• Creating fake profiles or impersonating other individuals.
• Sharing, distributing, or threatening to share intimate images without consent.
• Accessing or attempting to access accounts, data, or systems beyond your own.
• Using the platform to facilitate trafficking, exploitation, or any illegal activity.

We ask all members to treat each other with respect and discretion. This means:

• Do not share or comment on another member's personal information outside of the Platform.
• Do not use anything another member tells you to shame, blackmail, or manipulate them.
• Recognize that what people share with you is an act of trust. Treat it accordingly.

Members who weaponize another person's personal information will be removed.

• You must be at least 18 years old to use this platform.
• Individuals required to register as sex offenders are prohibited from using this platform.
• Members who represent an ongoing threat to others may be subject to account review.
• Intentional misrepresentation of who you are violates these standards and may result in removal.

Photos must:

• Clearly show your face in at least one image.
• Be photos of yourself, not of other people, celebrities, or fictional characters.
• Not contain nudity on public-facing profile images.
• Not contain minors (even as background individuals in group shots).
• Not include visible personally identifying information such as license plates, street addresses, or government ID numbers.

Violations of these standards may result in:

• Content removal.
• A formal warning.
• Temporary suspension of messaging or matching features.
• Temporary account suspension.
• Permanent account ban.
• Referral to law enforcement where appropriate.

We apply these consequences based on severity and context. Repeated or serious violations result in permanent removal with no appeal.